Not everybody likes the basic custom of the bride and groom consuming their first piece of marriage ceremony cake, solely to smash it into one another’s faces.

A lady disliked the act a lot that she left her husband over it. In a since-deleted put up on the favored Reddit discussion board “Am I the A**hole”, she defined that she had a “history with cake smashing” and her husband would continually present her movies of brides getting lined in marriage ceremony cake.

The bride goes on to elucidate that when she was 17 years previous, her mom wished to push her face into her birthday cake as a result of it’s a household custom. The teenager didn’t wish to destroy her hair and make-up, so she tried to refuse however her mom satisfied her to do it anyway.

“As I blew out my candles, my mom pushed my head into the cake and one of the decorations on the cake ended up slicing my forehead,” the Reddit consumer wrote. “Not enough to go to the hospital, but enough for some substantial bleeding. My birthday was ruined and after I wouldn’t come out of my room. My mom still calls me a brat for that.”

She continued, writing, “I told him [her husband-to-be] if he ever did something like that to me I’d leave him. He started laughing, but I was being for real. Though, he really was not taking me seriously.”

However, when the couple got married he didn’t heed the warning. “We get to the cake cutting part and as I turn to him, he scoops up a huge chunk of our wedding cake and smashes it all over my face,” the bride wrote.

Everyone in the crowd, including her family, began to laugh at her. The bride then walked away and got into an Uber with the guests and her husband telling her to come back. She was staying at a friend’s house at the time of writing the Reddit post.

“My family and his family has been blowing up my phone for days, saying I’m being childish and my husband is a good man and it was just a joke,” she stated. She claims her husband has additionally been attempting to contact her to speak and apologise.

“This was supposed to be the happiest day of our lives and he embarrassed me in front of everyone for some prank that he knew I hated,” she added. “Not solely that, he ruined a $500 greenback cake. He ruined my make-up, my hair and the highest of my gown. The cake obtained all over.”

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Many individuals have since turned to the feedback part to defend the bride’s resolution to go away her husband as a result of he didn’t respect her needs.

“This isn’t just a cake or a prank, this is flat out disrespect,” one remark started. “He knew how you’d react, he was just seeing it as a win win, you either sucked it up and went along with it, and he wins because he got to do his prank, or you would do what you did and now he gets to play the victim because he’s painting you as overreacting.”

Another individual agreed, writing, “You said you’d leave if he did it. He didn’t believe you. If you don’t leave you’ll be setting yourself for a lifetime of being walked over if it amuses him.”

“The fact that he disregarded your words and boundaries and ruined your day and outfit shows how he truly is,” a 3rd individual commented, defending the bride.